Tuesday, September 14, 2010
I'm not siding anyone, but this is what I have to say. If anyone of you know what I'm talking about.
First of all, I admit that I don't really know what's going on or what happened between you people.
But first thing's first,
- how can someone break up and forgot about their ex who's been through with for quite some time and get attached with another in a week plus?
- how can someone love another in a week plus? Is that really love? Or is it just PUPPY love?
Do you all know what love means or what it really is?
- It should be something special, and not something you throw out at somebody who you've known a week or two.
- Love is developed over a long period of time. It shouldn't be someone's first priority to claim their love the first moment they see them.
Love is:
- When you would do anything to be able to see this person.
- It is when you risk your life trying to save him/her.
And it cannot be duplicated.
You cannot claim you love someone else unless you have that special feeling deep down whenever you see that person.
Can all this really be developed in just a week plus? Think about it guys.
Especially those of you who are attached.
Think about it...
Put yourself in their shoes (both side of the parties included):
- If you're the ex, how would you feel?
How could she/he forget about me so quickly and get another partner?
Etc, etc.
- If you're the person's (the one who forgotten and love another in a week plus) friend, how would you feel?
How could she/he do this to the ex? I know the ex is not a good gf/bf but she/he once loved the ex and it is not easy to forget right?
Etc, etc.
- If you're the friend of the new partner, how would you feel?
In just a week plus of really getting to know my friend, does he/she really love my friend?
Etc, etc.
And..
- It is stupid to go around scolding vulgarities to each other(both parties included), it is obviously not going to solve anything but in turn make things worse.
- Saying vulgarities does not make you look big (yes, it doesn't), you're just using it to hide behind a wall that creates a shadow to make you look bigger. But behind the wall, you're just as small.
- Just call each other, settle things calmly, yes CALMLY. Don't go around finding your gang just in case something happens and everything ends up in a fight. (If you want to get hurt and caught by police, go ahead.)
- Don't give excuses such as, it's no point calling him/her out, he/she won't listen. This is not an excuse, it is an assumption. You haven't called him/her out yet, how would you know?
So please please, don't be stupid and scold vulgarities to each other, really. (it applies to both parties, so don't scold me and call me out and ask me shit stuff)
This is just my opinion and comments and you may ignore it if you wish. But still..
Think..
♥Let's hold hands and walk down the path together..♥
weijun left at 4:36 AM :D